A Little Bit About Me
Talking about yourself should be the easiest thing to do right? But can be one of the toughest, however no one knows you better than YOU. So here we go...
I live a pretty normal life. I value and respect myself. So my goal and aspiration is to be the best me I possibly can. You give respect in order to gain respect! something I was often taught in my childhood and reminded in my adulthood by my beautiful parents my Allah be pleased with them.. (sadly lost my beautiful mum in Aug and my dad in Dec ( 2 weeks ago) May Allah grant my beautiful mum and dad jannah Ameen and may Allah be pleased with my beautiful parents Ameen. May Allah reward my beautiful parents in the upbringing and the righteous they taught me Ameen 🤲
Losing both my beautiful parents very recently has not only bought me much closer to my Deen, but this has made me look at life in a whole different perspective! What is life? and how long do we have in this temporary world? The value of our loved ones.
I love my family and love spending time with my dad, and enjoy the tranquility of my home. I also have a big circle of friends, who I occasionally see and spend time with.
I have a positive outlook towards life and believe that we can find lasting happiness no matter what our circumstances may be.
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Marriage is one of the most beautiful things which will happen to you in your lifetime. It is just the matter of time since you will meet your soulmate and start this beautiful journey in the prospect of married life. This beautiful sunnah was practiced by Prophet Muhammad (S.A.W) himself and strictly ordered by Allah (S.W.T) as well. Get married and fulfill your religious duty to make sure you earn the Allah’s happiness.
Our Lord, grant us from among our spouses and offspring comfort to our eyes and make us an example for the righteous.” Quran (25:74)
“And We created you in pairs.” Quran (78:8)
“And of His signs is that He created for you from yourselves mates that you may find tranquility in them; And He placed between you affection and mercy. Indeed in that are signs for a people who give thought.” Quran (30:21)
“It is He who created you from one soul and created from it its mate that he might dwell in security with her. And when he covers her, she carries a light burden and continues therein. And when it becomes heavy, they both invoke Allah, their Lord, ‘If You should give us a good [child]’, we will surely be among the grateful.” Quran (7:189)
“O mankind! Be careful of your duty to your Lord who created you from a single soul and from it created its mate and from them twain hath spread abroad a multitude of men and women. Be careful of your duty toward Allah is Whom ye claim (your rights) of one another, and toward the wombs (that bare you). Lo! Allah hath been a watcher over you.” Quran (4:1)
“Wicked women (are) for wicked men, and wicked men (are) for wicked women; and good women (are) for good men, and good men (are) for good women. Those are (declared) quit of whatever they (i.e., of what the wicked ones say) say; they will have forgiveness and an honorable provision.” Quran (24:26)
“And Allah created you from dust, thereafter from a *****-drop; thereafter He made you pairs; and in no way can a female conceive or give birth except with His Knowledge; and in no way can anyone be given a long age, (i.e., bear the burden of) nor is anyone diminished in his age, except that it is in a Book. Surely that is easy for Allah.” Quran (35:11)
“It has been made permissible for you the night preceding fasting to go to your wives [for sexual relations]. They are clothing for you and you are clothing for them. Allah knows that you used to deceive yourselves, so He accepted your repentance and forgave you. So now, have relations with them and seek that which Allah has decreed for you. And eat and drink until the white thread of dawn becomes distinct to you from the black thread [of night]. Then complete the fast until the sunset. And do not have relations with them as long as you are staying for worship in the mosques. These are the limits [set by] Allah, so do not approach them. Thus does Allah make clear His ordinances to the people that they may become righteous.” Quran (2:187)
“And Allah has made for you of yourselves spouses, and made for you from your spouses sons (i.e. sons and daughters; seeds) and grandchildren, and He has provided you of the good (things). Is it then that they believe in untruth, and in the favor of Allah they (do) disbelieve?” Quran (16:72)
“Glorified is the One Who created every kind of vegetables and animals [including the disbelievers] in male and female as well as other creatures that they do not even know about their existence” Quran (36:36)
I'm a believer...
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What I Am Looking For
I am looking for someone born and bred in the UK. Happy with someone who is divorced like myself, ideally someone with no children.
I'm not looking for a relationship. Happy to get to know someone for marriage only.
I've come across a hand full of individuals who are on here for fun and banter. Not something I'm interested in. Thank you and all the best
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